Your Groomsmen and their Responsibilities

Planning a wedding without some helping hands can be quite overwhelming for you as the groom and your bride. 

That’s why there’s provision for groomsmen and bridesmaids. As you’re planning your wedding, you should also get to think about those that’ll stand to give support as you exchange vows with your bride. 

The responsibilities of the groomsmen are numerous and you’ll get a lot off your chest just by assigning the roles. 

In this article, you’ll get to read about the major responsibilities of your chosen groomsmen ahead of the day. 

Responsibilities of your Groomsmen

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Selecting the attire for the day

After enough deliberations with your wife, you can go ahead to order the outfits alongside one or two of your groomsmen. 

If you’re not ordering for them online, sourcing the right store to buy from can be very stressful. So, assign some of your friends to help you out in picking up after you have a perfect picture of what you want for the day. 

Planning Bachelor’s Party

With your groomsmen in the picture, you’ll get to plan the perfect bachelor’s party that’ll be fun-filled and thrilling. Your groomsmen are in charge of organizing a bachelor’s party for you either with you aware or by throwing a surprise. 

When planning, it may involve some payments to get the right venue, theme, food, drinks, music, and other interesting activities done. 

While you may want to be surprised by the whole planning, you can get involved by sensing some cash into the organizers. Most times, the best man is always the lead in this planning, so toss some cash into your best man’s hand to ease the planning. 

Select the Perfect Wedding Band

If you’re just planning the proposal for your bride, you need to get the perfect engagement ring that’ll show how much you love her. In this regard, your future groomsman can help in finding the right ring. 

Likewise, as you’re planning to get married, your groomsmen can help in shopping for the right mens wedding rings for you on the big day. 

Buy the Best Wedding Gift

As a groomsman, your duty also entails getting the best wedding gift for the newlyweds. As you’re planning the wedding for the couple, you should take some time to ask what their perfect wedding gift could be. 

On the other hand, your group can check their wedding registry to find what you’ll love to get them. 

You can also decide to take part in their wedding activity like paying for their honeymoon or getting some nice items in their apartment. 

Decorate Their Cars

When it comes to the little things about weddings that can be easily forgotten, groomsmen and bridesmaids have to help. 

One of these is decorating their cars, especially the ones for getaways. Most times, the couple tends to forget about decorating their getaway cars (if they decide to have one). Likewise, it can be a form of a surprise to add to their adventure. 

Get the Groom Relaxed

After weeks and months of planning, the groom sure hasn’t found enough time to rest. So, the groomsmen need to get the groom relaxed. Remember it’s his day and you have to get him ready, looking fresh and all glowing to meet his bride. 

Also, you need to always remind the groom not to get nervous because it’s bound to happen. To avoid this, keep your groom calm hours before the wedding. 

Dress the Groom 

Next up, you should dress the groom on the wedding day. Groomsmen are not only the groom’s support during the wedding ceremony, but they also act as his angels before the ceremony too. 

Ensure the suits are well-regarded to avoid rushing. Also, check for any missing accessories the night before and get new ones delivered if possible. 

Ensure the photographer arrives on time to capture your moments before he steps out. 

Carry Some Snacks for the Groom

The whole activities of the day often make the grooms forget about eating. A very useful tip to avoid this is taking some snacks along for the groom and his bride. 

Ask for their favorite snacks or drinks and get someone to buy them before the day. On the day, you can simply give them to eat in between the ceremonies. 

Make the Guest Comfortable

Not only do you have roles to do for the groom, but you also have to attend to the guests. The guests are there to celebrate and may have some issues at any point. 

As the representative of the groom, you have to ensure everyone is very comfortable during the nuptials and reception as well. 

You may decide to learn about the traditions of their preferred wedding before the day to ensure everything goes with hitches. 

Support the Groom 

Your support for the groom even becomes more evident on the day as you’ll have to stand by him. After all, has been done, get yourself dressed to get involved in the romantic show of love between the couple. 

Before the time, however, you need to get enough rest as well and something to eat. This makes you feel comfortable and prepared to watch your friend get hitched. 

You don’t want to spoil their day, right? Keep your body fresh and energetic for the role of activities. 

Dance, Dance, Dance

What’s a wedding without dance? One of the activities you should be looking forward to is joining others on the dance floor to show your skills. 

Prepare yourself to get involved in the fun and who knows? You may be getting to meet your bride as well (if you’re still single). 

Wrap the event up and wish your couple well

Now that all the day’s tasks see completed, you should now send your couple away to enjoy their honeymoon. Get their gifts in the car and bid them farewell. 

In Conclusion

As a groomsman, you have a lot of responsibilities for the couple other than standing beside them. From planning the proposal, selecting the wedding band, and tending to the guests, you can never get exhausted in the ones you select. 

Have fun while planning and get prepared for the day.

Julie Higgins
Julie is a Staff Writer at She has been working in publishing houses before joining the editorial team at momooze. Julie's love and passion are topics around beauty, lifestyle, hair and nails.